A few months ago, I had a round of these conversations with the usual suspects in my life. Think of it as a dick Overton window: a continuum of acceptability, but in this case, one that varies from person to person. Boyfriend dicks have a measurable component, of course, but not a consistent one. Vaginas vary in depth and sensitivity just like penises vary in length and shape, and where some women may enjoy the mix of pleasure and pain she gets when someone hung repeatedly bashes into her cervix, others want nothing to do with it. For the first group of women, a inch monster looks like a Christmas gift wrapped up in a pair of boxer-briefs.
What makes an exceptionally good dick? To find out, I asked 20 women to share their preferences for the perfect penis. Some foreskin appears a bit saggy and sad. Girth is more important than length — about the thickness of a deodorant can. Taking a really big cock can make things a little slower, so I tend to prefer ones that are slightly shorter and more versatile. The style of penis I prefer is any size or shape, wielded by a confident, enthusiastic partner who is interested in my pleasure, as well as their own.
I like to talk about sex, eroticism, sensuality and lovers. I want you to know what I like so that there are never any guessing games. If pleasure, seduction, desire and ecstasy are but just a taste of what I want to experience in my erotic and sexual adventures with lovers, it is of the utmost important that they know With this list, you can add to it, reference it, share it and hopefully have at it.
How big? I thought I would give it a go, so I guess my expectations were really low. One guy that I slept with, he had a big frame but he had a really tiny dick. Like, not micro, but probably a little bit longer than a thumb.